My husband had a typically Aries day yesterday - that is completely selfish.
On thinking about it I realised just how much of my day is spent making sure that he has food, his clothes are washed and he is comfortable in a clean house. I plan ahead for the meals, I plan ahead for the washing and I even put in my diary what to clean.
His day is spent not thinking about making me more comfortable at all. He gets up to breakfast, goes to work - the same work that I go to for the same amount of time, he has home-made sweets to have with his cuppas, he gets lunch made for him, he leaves work and rides his horses, comes home to dinner and then sits on the counch watching TV until bed.
Very busy day he has!
I really get a great satisfaction from having good food to eat and our house in order (50's housewife mentality I know but it is how I feel). But when I don't feel loved for it or I feel ignored that's when I crack it.
So I went to bed cranky which ruined my sleep and now I am up at the crack of dawn still harping on it.
Hopefully this post will help me let it go..... But can't men be so selfish sometimes!!!!!